It is good when D people can bury the hatchet, but it usually takes some time before that happens. Usually there are some hurt and raw feelings for a while. But, maybe in time. When children are involved, it sure makes it better. For a time though, it probably will not be easy street. However, if the people involved want to badly enough, they can get through it without trying to tear each others throats out.
Glad you had a good day and hope you have several more. It helps us get through those rough bumps in the road.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!