I get your point about MC and needing both to be ready. You say that it changes the sitch and I guess you are right. My question is how do you/we deal with it?
Do we go yelling and screaming and say stop it? Do we wait it out? Do we turn our heads and run the other way?
My sitch is an EA with a married man 14 yrs older who I believe, she is not physical with (gut). I feel I (she)cannot move forward until that is subsided.
So, if Making_IT has a similar sitch... How do we deal with it?
I agree with you, just don't know how to move forward.
You will ask the question "can I get over it" "either way"? and I say yes! Does that make me weak? I have 2 children and 15 years. What will I find if I run. Another relationship that ended because she had an affair on her first H and he could not get over it?
Making_IT, I hope this helps both of us. I am certainly not trying to hijack your thread, but help us both.
Me - 35 W - 32 (EA with OM) M - 13 1/2 D - 11 S - 9 ILYBNILWY - January 2009 Status - Limbo
