Since you took her off the accounts, why do you need the cards back?
The credit card companies let me keep the same account number. Her card is still functional, however she is no longer an authorized user on the account. I didn't want to change numbers because of the auto-debits that I have coming out of the account and I don't believe that she will try and screw me at this stage.
Thank you very much for the advice. I am feeling highs and lows like I have never felt before.... Well, maybe not the highs! This stuff is driving me crazy. I have always been a very focused person and this situation has turned my mind to a whirlwind of thoughts and confusion. I can't wait to have some clarity again in my life again. I will post up how things go.
Thanks!
M 30 WAW 29 T 15 M 5 ILYBNILWY 3/8/09 Separated 3/14/09