Thank you BND,

I'm not exactly the same woman he left behind...I was a happy SAHM that was fun, involved in art (painting) and had lots of young artsy friends around. After he left, I don't paint, haven't gone to any art shows and more or less stopped hanging out with most of my friends.

I've become unhappy, insecure, and worried about my future!

M51, H49, D21
M 23yrs, T 28yrs
3/07 - OW Bomb
6/07 - move to MIL's; OW relocate
10/07 - OW2 Bomb
5/08 - secretly move to OW2's
end/08 - secretly get beach apt w/OW2
2/09 I petition Legal Sep, not served yet