Hey Julia & Michelle, thanx for the kind words & encouragement. I think the positives will keep going. There's no whys or wheres or wonders left to ask. What's done is done.
Strange though, I gave my H a wall plaque that was his & then said he could take other pictures (not picture of us) that were his when he moved in (before we M). He said well, you like them too, so you can keep them. I said no, there yours & you should have them. Just makes me wonder at times if he thinks of coming back some day. Really, it's quite unimportant, but just very odd.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)