How can someone be so freakin' idiotic? Someone told me the other day that with the guilt and stupidity that comes with an affair, it is so bad that the divorce is just easier.
What a wimp! And then to top it all off, "I know you have" loved me with all your heart?
Amy - get through this, there is so much better on the other side. I'm going to be doing the same thing as you in a few short weeks, and I'm not relishing the thought, but it's gonna happen.
Hey, you know what though? It's good to get that out, you've put the burden back on H, where it belongs.
Now, that crap is over with, and you are free from that responsibility!
One thing I have discovered with my kids and the OM hanging around the last few months is that it has brought them closer to me. Parents fulfill a role - a dad and a mom fulfill a role each. And when that role is further divided with OM/OW, the kids tend to gravitate toward the one that stays with them.
They know more than you would imagine - even as W tries to do game nights, and take them to local fun places with OM, they are starting to push harder and harder for us.
Your kids are going to be OK - and not because divorce is good, and affairs are good, and all that. They are going to be OK because they have a Mom who loves them so dearly, and will never allow anyone to come between them and her, and who will fight for them, and fight for right, and put God first in their life!
