And just to journal a little about today and what just happened. So W left yesterday afternoon to go work in her restaurant job and stay out for the night. I didn't call, email, text and she didn't either. Today she had to be at her second job at 7am to work until 2pm. Same thing...no calls, emails, text msgs from either of us. Just got a call from her but I didn't pick up as I try not to answer all her calls and was actually talking to a co-worker anyway. She was all pleasant and just wanted to talk about my day and her day and give me her plans for the night. Sounded like she just wanted to talk. So confused sometimes by that...