That's an interesting observation about fighting for her. I've thought of that too and my MC said that some of the things she has done sounds like she is seeing if I'm still interested in her. But how do I fight for her without totally pursuing her which I did in the beginning and it pushed her away like crazy?

Yeah, I did the typical beginning....begged, pleaded, tried to reason logically...etc... Then I read DR and saw that that really was not the way to go.


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1776293#Post1776293