You are totally correct that he could be lying about the divorce but at the very least he and his wife are separated since they are living in separate apartments. Pretty sure of that or otherwise how could my W be crashing at his place or taking care of his kids there? I think he is getting divorced but I think he is stringing the W along as a cushion for his own fall from grace. I'm sure this will all come crashing down eventually once the high from the new relationship wears off and they both realize the destruction and wake they left. As for the discovery, well....the night he made his feelings known was pre-bomb and she came home and told me. Of course she told me under the assumption of no way would it happen. Then when she dropped the bomb and we went to MC she confessed that she wanted to see him and that was the route she was going to take. A little more background on him and just to add insult to injury. The restaurant he works at is the same place we did valentines day for the last 3 years and is also where we had our wedding party dinner....OUCH!
