I suggest the Walk Out Woman. It wasn't very harsh in the approach it used and had some wisdom and perspectives that she could apply to her sitch without feeling like a bad person. Hey, at this point, it can't hurt.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!