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[Beans]

Ok, so the talk with H went well Friday night. I told him the kids want their time with him to be just their time not with OW also. He nodded ok, no argument nothing. So I thought everything went good. He mentioned that he wasn't sure how long he could keep giving me money for the house payment as he has too many bills of his own. Whatever, it was his decision to move out. He signed a year lease!

My D-14 told me that he got mad at her Friday night after he picked her up. He said "I was going to bring you, your brother, and OW and OW's S-10 to a movie Saturday, now I'm gonna have to cancel my plans"
My D said "not don't cancel your plans dad, that is fine I just don't want you to ignore me when you are with her". Ahg, she said she is afraid he will get angry at her and he won't want to spend time with her.

He also brought them all out to dinner after the movie. (he paid)
so he doesn't have enough money for the house payment because he wants to have some more spending money! D-14 told me that dad told her not to tell.

I called H and was not nice, I know I shouldn't of but I told him he was direspecful and selfish and I hung up on him. after the phone call he texted D all he said was "thanks". then he called her and she said "I told you the truth dad I don't care if we spend time with her" Now what?

I told my D that I'm not mad at her. I'm upset that dad put her in that position. He shouldn't of done something that she wasn't suppose to tell me. He's putting her in the middle.

Now this morning he texted me, have u calmed down?
I'm not going to respond to him until I have calmed down, I am still steamed at him. I'm not sure how to approach him!
Suggestions?