This is the same discussion you two have been having ever since you started counseling. Let her concentrate on her first, then your R. If she can't heal herself then you both can't move on. Make the counseling session about her and not all on the R or you. She is the key.
What are your suggestions to handle it then when our counselor asks how things are going? My wife (except for last week), differs to me to answer.
I've been struggling with this one every week.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
