The roller-coaster is definitely at the bottom of it's run right now. Based on what she told you on Sunday, do you really want to open those lines of communication right now? Seriously, you do not need someone who talks like that to you right now. Realize that it was not your W who was talking; it was some alien pod person and the only thing you can do is to pull back and let her cool off. As MWD says in the book: "Don't strike when the iron is hot".
It's tough not talking to her. It's tough not seeing her. It's tough being in this whole damned sitch, but you are tough, too. Everyone here is cheering you on and giving you strength and advice for how to detach. You can do it!
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09