Your are right it is time to seperate, your wife seems to be clueless. As far as her taking your daughter to a party with a party, you did the right thing calling your lawyer, her behavior is appalling.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023