mlb, Your W and mine are pretty much doing the same thing. Listen to Jag and get the book and start following it. It will save your sanity. Focus on the only thing that you can at this point and that is yourself and the kids.
Your W is all fogged out on the romance chemicals and she is not acting or thinking rationally. There is a way forward and there is a way back, but you need to detach from her (lovingly) and become the better man.
Lots of advice here on the boards on how to go about doing that, and of course, in the book. Browse around to some other folks' sitches and give them a read for what is working in their lives. Also, feel free to post in whatever thread makes sense. Ask questions, solicit advice and be a part of this community. Everyone here is in a similar place in their life. Come on here and vent, cry, or just learn.
Sorry you are here, but it is the right place for you to be right now.
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