In the end, feelings are feelings. I do need to her to heal and I do love her unconditionally - no expectations.
Read something recently that I completely agree with. Men and women do not because they cannot love each unconditionally. You can only love unconditionally as a parent.
There are conditions to love between men and women. If I thought my husband had not given up some of the crap that's gone on during this roller coaster ride, I would not still be fighting here.....and to me that's a condition. Am I wrong?
If you tell her that you're not sure you can live apart and stay married, isn't that a condition? I'm not sure.
