I Never Imagined Being Here

[Mountain_Biker]

Hey - Just wanted to drop a line to you and say I know what you are going through. We are in very similar situations and both new to this.

I don't have any advice as I am pulling in as much as I can from folks here, but I can tell you to keep fighting. There is certainly a lot to keep fighting for, we both know that. Stay strong and keep going... Best of luck. I will stay with your story and add if I can.

I might suggest that you not consider the affair as a possibility right now. You have reason to believe there is not, so stay with that. I might be inclined to say you work on other issues first. Once you are in a better position you can deal with it. Decide now if you could accept it and keep moving forward.