My hope for you as well partner. That sounds great, if she gets the job, that maybe the trigger that gets her to ask you to stay with her and the kids. Thoughts have to be kept positive in all of this.
As far as my situation I am very happy with where we are, but I have to keep on striving to be the best person I can be and not become complacent, that is for me, because when I do these things it makes me feel good about me. The positive R that comes from it is just an awesome byproduct, kinda like oxygen from a plant during photosynthesis.