dont list the house...when we were close to divorce last year, he tried to convince me to list the house and get everything over with right away. i was so used to listening to him i almost did it. i was advised not to list it, u use it as your bargaining tool.

and here i am, not divorced and still in the house.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09