Well I think I have the answer to the problem \:D
After studying the pie chart it is obvious
He sleeps too much!

I said ouch too btw when I read the post.
Trying to see the positive is that losing 100% of nothing is 0 so ...

I also agree with Johns definition of commitment and my English is great.
Maybe the way we define it (whatever our language) is how we give it,commitment that is. What it actually involves when we are commited to someone.
Oh Maria I so wish we had some answers for you. You deserve to be loved by someone with ever fibre of their being.
((()))