I agree with Burt's suggestions. Keep any communication you initiate to strictly business. If she contacts you then you can chit chat, keep it light, and end the contact first.

Think about her as a neighbor whose name you know but do not socialize with. Be polite and nice when speaking but nothing really personal.

What are your GAL activities? What are you going to do for YOU today?

If you love somebody, set them free.
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