im starting to realize what a long path it would be...
have been on W's facebook page as well as OM page the past week or so. I'm not 'friends' with either, and I dont understand FB much. But, I can view their 'friends'. Neither has the other as a friend. The part that makes me realize this is a gigantic longshot, me and W ever again...her page is full of people I have never met. It's like she has a totally different life on there. You would think that after being with someone for 18yrs, you would probably know more that 20% of someones friends on FB. Thus..if she has a different life and created this world with OM in this new group, might be hard for her to leave that too. Or...if this blows up in her face, she may be embarrassed and realize what she did and may not want to be a part of that group like she was.
I ordered the just friends book. I was also able to confirm through legal methods that OM has not filed from OMW, as my W said they were getting divorced. It may not be that far along in the process, but I find it interesting. I think he's lying to both of them.