Just stopping in to let you know I am praying for your H to have that epiphany when he steps off the boat!
Faithful--
I know you, and many others here, are praying for DH and I and I cannot ever express how much it means to me. God will work this out. I am patient and will wait until He gets through to my DH. I know, right now, he has plans to "go away" for most of his leave period when he returns from deployment. I am not dumb, I can pretty much figure out what that means. The kids are going to be so hurt and upset that he is not spending time with them. They talk about what "we" are going to do with Daddy when he gets home. But, that is his problem to work out, not mine. I can only control me.
From his last emails, I am given the impression that DH wants to stay here at the house when he plans to be home. I do not want that--for a number of reasons, not the least of which is the fact that D9's counselor said it was not healthy for the kids. However, God apparently has other plans and has been dealing with me pretty harshly on this. Kind of like being thumped in the back of the head repeatedly. maybe God is planning on working on the mountain from inside our home?? I do not know what His plans are, but I will let DH stay here, within my boundaries--i.e. no contact with OW from the house or around the kids.
I am praying for teh epiphany and so are many others from here and church. With God, anything is possible and miracles happen, especially when the situation lines up with God's will.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
