That would depend: what is your goal? Why have you been dim/dark to begin with?
My goal is to open up communication with my wife for the purpose of reconciliation and stopping her from divorcing me! I haven't been dark on purpose--she told me to leave her alone and to f$#% off last Sunday. My question is, how do I reestablish lines of communication without making it look like I'm doing so?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
