I hear you AF. It is a daily struggle, but it does get easier as time passes. the old adage that "Time heals all wounds" is one I've found to be true as far as getting over the loss of a love.
Hang in there. I hope your weekend is going well.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
It is a daily struggle, but it does get easier as time passes.
It is getting a little easier. I think now that she's not sending mixed signals I have found it easier to adjust. I wonder is she's truly happy living by herself. I find myself anxious to move, to leave the state and start a new life with my daughter. So many possibilities. Seems like I was so close-minded before and I don't know why. I know, patience and keep working out. One day at a time.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
I know I was like that in the beginning, too. For me, it was about month 3 of the separation where I started looking at the R for what it truly was and not have it filtered through those rose-colored filters.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
We've been physically separated since February 22nd. I hope it gets better. I just don't want to hurt so bad...to be so disappointed. Hopefully I'll get to where I don't miss her as much as I do now. I've got to remember to have faith that it will get better and that it only takes one person to change the dynamics of a relationship.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
We've been physically separated since February 22nd. I hope it gets better. I just don't want to hurt so bad...to be so disappointed. Hopefully I'll get to where I don't miss her as much as I do now.
I feel you. I've been separated since 6 Feb. It does get better but you will have your moments. Weekends are the worst for me. Too much time to think. On top of that, my wife doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. I think it was easier not to miss her once she started being mean to me. Hang on.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
What a boring day! The wife called to talk with my daughter. My daughter got off the phone and exclaimed: "Wow, that was almost five minutes". She invited my daughter to spend the night Friday and Saturday next week. So, now I have to think of something to do. Man, being seperated sucks--so boring. I gotta get a hobby. Any suggestions?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Mine doesn't want to talk to me, or even see me at all! I think she's processing a bunch of emotions right now, and I am a trigger for her explosive anger and rage. I'm doing better now than I was a month ago. You hang in there too!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Yeah, I hear you, mine doesn't talk to me much, only when she has to. She did ask me if I was ok the other day when she was dropping off my daughter. I didn't talk with her very much as I'm still upset about her telling me to leave her the F$%# alone and to F%$# off last Sunday. So I have been--no phone calls, no nothing and it's been hard, I won't lie.
I didn't sleep very well last night--kept waking up thinking about her. While they are making us all a pill to get into shape, how about one that takes away all this heartache? It sure does kill your motivation.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Ugh, feeling real, real miserable today. Can't keep my mind off her. It's been a little more than a week and we've "talked" about 2 minutes this week. Should I call her tonight? I want so bad to talk with her but honestly at this point don't know what to say. It's almost like she is DBing me by going dark. I thought I was over this feeling of missing her but it is extra strong today. HELP!!!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Ugh, feeling real, real miserable today. Can't keep my mind off her. It's been a little more than a week and we've "talked" about 2 minutes this week. Should I call her tonight?
That would depend: what is your goal? Why have you been dim/dark to begin with?
