Goingdownhill, neither my wife or myself left the house, eventhough she wanted me to get out, I would not because she was the one unhappy and did not want to work on the mariage not me.
This was very important in my sitch because she could see all of my changes that I was making.
After 3 months I went to our mc today (my second time there) and she said I have been a perfect husband and how happy she was with the changes that I made in my life and in our life. The only thing holding her back is trusting me enough to know that these changes are lasting and not just a quick fix to go back how things were.
There is hope out there, just need to follow the playbook.
