My situation #9

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Journaling: (I do this alot to keep track of events)

My W just called me at work and thanked me for cleaning her car. She said she got in this morning and was looking around and saw how clean the car really was. She said it felt really nice - like it was a brand new car.

Then she laughed and said, "I was wondering if you had an ulterior motive. The steering wheel is slippery." I told her I didn't use armor-all on the steering wheel. Then I said, "I shucks, it didn't work, and with the rain today..." We laughed.

She thanked me a few times for cleaning it. It's something I wanted to do yesterday so I did it. I figured there's no reason to change from what I have been doing all these months - things are as they are, but that doesn't mean I have to be different than what I've worked so hard to change into.

She just called me again to tell me what she found out while doing research on a medical problem our S may have. We talked for about 10 minutes about it - she setup an appointment for an ultrasound for him on Wed.