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Yeah me too. Shoveling, lawyers, housework.....yeeha!

Thanks you have a good day too.

See ya.


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Well we only got about 6 inches, so not too bad I guess. It did bring some big tree limbs down in the yard because it was so wet and heavy.

After the letter I receive from her lawyer and then what went down last night, I have about had it. I don't want anything to do with her the way she is right now. I wish she would just leave me alone.

I still don't know if I will have trial tomorrow or not, I will find that out later today. I can't stand this. I am so ready for it to end.

Well, judging by last nights phone call, obviously nothing has changed with her. She is still a selfish, manipulative, controlling lier. Until she changes, I want nothing to do with her.


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I told you that after awhile you finally get to the point where enough is enough. A part of you wants to give your all and work on saving the marriage but the other part just gives up. It is tiring. Trapt, a person can only take so much before they snap. Don't let yourself get that far.

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Until she changes, I want nothing to do with her.


I'm sorry darling but you are stuck with dealing with her because of the kids whether you want it or not. At least you can put your blinders on and pick and choose when to deal with it.











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I'm just ready for this part to be over with. I'm not anywhere near my breaking point, just tired of the same old crap.

This isn't gonna break me.

I will deal with her about money and the kids that is it and pretty soon, once this is settled it will be about the kids only.


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The only good thing about all of this is that I don't have to listen to her crap. I can stop it with the click of the receiver now.


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That is always a good thing. I only had to hang up on H once, but of course I called him an a$$hole at the time.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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The only good thing about all of this is that I don't have to listen to her crap. I can stop it with the click of the receiver now.


It gets even better. The fun part is when you make them mad and they yell and rant and tell you how much they hate you and then the next day act like nothing happened. That is a rollercoaster I am thankful to be getting off of.











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Hey, sorry about the crap. I had to hang up on my h this morning. I'm about to post it on my thread. Would like some opinions on if I'm being a B or not. I don't think so.


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
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I'm just getting geared up for today and tomorrow. I'm not taking any shitt from her or her lawyer. What they are pulling now is BS. Reality is coming and it's coming today.


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Good luck today and tomorrow.











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