Any one see another way? Am I blaming him or holding him responsible?
I can honestly say I understand how you feel. As things change, all that pent up hurt and frustration come rushing back so fast you almost can't breathe.
Kass, I think you're blaming him . I think you're holding him responsible. I think you need to find it within yourself to reconsider. I think this is what you have been hoping and praying for and as you go through it the pain is incredible and you are not feeling like you can tolerate it a moment longer.
I think you should take a deep breath and reconsider and understand this in the larger perspective. This is not an unexpected set-back. There will be a few set-backs on the way. Your feelings are raw. You hurt. So does he. You feel like he should take your feelings into account and work for them. I can't disagree but you have to see that this is not going to be a smooth road to recovery. Work to be done.
Please reconsider.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
