Hello All, I did have a great weekend and at the same time a crappy one!! Ta-dah! Basically Friday was ok. H got on my nerves, we had it out a little bit but nothing terrible. He brought up ex-OW and for the first time I explained to him my issues with this stupid person. And he nodded and agreed. He said something about us getting divorce, I told him to leave and as he's leaving he mentions--"You look really great. (I was dressed to go out--but never did) You know where I'll be later if you want to come over." WTF???????????????????????? I did not go over there. Instead I called a friend and we talked most of the night. Love her! Saturday, he has S. I didn't hear from H until I called around 4:30 to ask how S was doing. He put S on the phone then he talked to me--asked about my day and said "Well I'm making chicken so if you want to come over for dinner, please do. We'll just be hanging out here watching basket ball." I didn't go there for dinner, but I went later and stayed the night. We did get into an arguement because he was perfectly normal to wonderful, then got weird and I was tired and let it go. Then it was all back to normal to pretty good. During that conversation, he says again, we are not getting back together. I asked him "If you want out so bad, why are you always around?" He said I set things up so he'd always have to be. I told him to set up the schedule then. He later admits, the schedule as is, is the best option. Again I ask: WTF????? He says he'll be around less. I said Ok. So weird. And it gets better. Sunday, we go to brunch as planned with some friends. At brunch he says "S and I are going to go watch Monsters Vs. Aliens if you want to join us. And not for the last time: WTF?????? After brunch, I need a freaking break and me and girlfriend went to watch the local universities tennis team play. It was great. Afterward, I'm in a much better mind frame. I got back over to our place. S is napping. H goes out and cleans my windshield for me and puts some rainex on it. Then we wake up S and instead of the movie we go shopping. While shopping, the first store, he's not jazzed about anything. I said let's go. He says, Well, let's check out Banana Republic, maybe they're having a good cycle. We have a chuckle and walk that way. (H and I agree BR and GAP have seasons where everything in the store is fabulous, or it sucks.) We get to BR. He finds two suits he loves and there's a pretty good sale going. He has this look on his face and I ask what's wrong? He starts to complain about money. "I love these suits, but we shouldn't spend the money." To that I say "I think you were meant to get these suits. For a guy who believes in the cosmos, I want to point out to you, for only having a few suits left, don't you think it's amazing they had every size jacket and pants that you wanted to try on? And don't you think it's amazing that you could buy these two suits and wear them perfectly as is?" He started to smile and said "You're right." Long shopping trip short, we got the two suits at a more than 50% less than what only one would normally cost, plus four pairs of fun socks for him. But when we were leaving, he was going on about what a great deal that was, and blah blah blah. I said to him, "That's how I always shop. Bargains only." He looked at me and said "Yeah, you are great that way." So, one battle for me.
We have a trip planned for S's third birthday this month to Disney. That should be awesome. Then the weekend right after, we have an adult weekend planned with some friends. That should be even better.
But he is a again mentioning divorce. He hadn't done that in more than 8 weeks. We did have some pretty good fights this week and yes, most of them were my fault because I just couldn't get myself to shut up.
