She just sucks you into her mess so easily. That you know all that info about her realtor suggests you listened to her tell you all about it. Make yourself UNAVAILABLE for her play-by-play on how she's going to bust up your family. Grab YOUR Crackberry and say "Oh, sorry to interrupt but I HAVE to take this call." Being 'separated' and living together must be a much bigger challenge in terms of being unavailable when she wants to spread mess but SEND THAT MESSAGE TO HER. I would not have asked about how the house hunting went. And if she brought up what she looked at or decided on, I would have one question only: is it in a safe neighborhood b/c you are concerned for the children. Although I know a lot gets lost and skewed in text, your posts read like she sucks you into topics that you would do well to resist.
Answer to her 'pullin the trigger' comment: You can stop this anytime you want.
My .02 ~~~ keep the date for Thursday. Look fab. Enjoy YOURSELF at the gallery. If she cancels the outing, YOU GO ANYWAY!
Cheers ~~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08