Ok WDID, one more question. If this is what she's going thru, do I continue to occasionally contact her while she's at work, just to see how her day is going, etc?

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.