First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Thanks Pup. Stubborn? Yep, that's her. I know that's part of what she struggles with. Because in her mind, it had to be right or she wouldn't have done it so now that it appears that it was wrong, she is fighting that person in her that can't accept that it was wrong.

WDID. I appreciate the comments. I hope you're right that she ended something. I would be really surprised if it was someone other than OM. After our talk a couple weeks ago I could see her deciding that she needed to end talking to him, even if in her mind it was only "friends" talk. And now she's WD'ing from it. She did get rid of the glass (at least put it away somewhere).

She's still got the undies. We bought a new dresser with the bed a few months ago and she just this weekend moved her undies into it. I checked and she's got them stashed away towards the bottom of the pile, but she had to grab them and move them so that could be part of what was F'ing with her head this weekend.

Logically, I think I know she's progressing and I just need to help her get through it any way I can. But it's so hard to not get anything for so long.

Like Sunday, we went grocery shopping and had a good time. On the way home I put my hand on her leg. She didn't flinch or anything, but we stopped at the ATM when we got in our town and while I was getting money she grabbed her coat out of the back seat and put in on her lap. It's not hard to see she did that so I couldn't put my hand back on her leg when I finished at the ATM.

I know I can't push her, but for over a year and a half I've got nothing in the form of affection except those rare times when we're out of town and she'll be intimate with me. I almost wish she wouldn't be intimate with me because it makes it that much harder, ya know?

I'll have to think about this weekend and if I should do something or not.

Thanks again guys.