When ypu think of it many families are dysfuntcional
MY H family was and so was mine
we picked eachother for a reason
Its good to know what all the issues are
I had to start with me
knowing what I did wrong In M
I also took note of my H
His father M the OW left the family when H was young
so he never had a father
he used to be a good father
today I would classify him as a disneyland dad
he sees the kids and takes them to the movies x hours a week
he is a terrible dad in my eyes
so knowing all this
we heal ourselves
we get better
maybe the MLCer will return in time
Maybe we will move on into a new and better R with them or another
the real Key is to get myself as mentally healthy as possible during this time
couseling is so beneficial here
good luck
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow