When ypu think of it many families are dysfuntcional MY H family was and so was mine we picked eachother for a reason Its good to know what all the issues are I had to start with me knowing what I did wrong In M I also took note of my H His father M the OW left the family when H was young so he never had a father he used to be a good father today I would classify him as a disneyland dad he sees the kids and takes them to the movies x hours a week he is a terrible dad in my eyes so knowing all this we heal ourselves we get better maybe the MLCer will return in time Maybe we will move on into a new and better R with them or another the real Key is to get myself as mentally healthy as possible during this time couseling is so beneficial here good luck peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow