WDID,

If she IS going thru withdrawal, and it's because she is doing what her husband has asked her to do, it's it imperative that she COMMUNICATE that to him? Isn't that the whole point to no-contact, transparency and recovery -- for them BOTH to communicate with each other honestly, and begin to try to heal their marriage?

Put more simply, if withdrawal is causing bitchiness, and she doesn't tell him, doesn't she just come across as, well, a b*tch??

Puppy