Very smart move. She will probably scream like a banshee when she finds out, but it was the right thing to do. You do need to focus on you right now and detach from her.
Thank you for the encouragement. It felt like the right thing to do, but I also felt scared about doing it. I guess technically she has walked out on this marriage right now any how. If things work out, great, I can always add her back (which is what I am hoping for!). If things don't work, then I didn't lose anything.
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