Hey Maria, ohhh sorry!!! I didnt mean it that way, oops! I meant, you were saying once something about what would be the most extreme thing be that would 'shock' him?
Sorry John, I had people say to me my ex is a commitment phobe, but I am not sure its that, just seems like theres something else going on. Same as for K's H.
All this analysis perhaps isnt it though is it, its how someone makes you feel, if they make you feel good, if they add something to your life, if your life is complete but by knowing them, being close to them you get something extra, valuable, worthwhile, positive.. if they make you happy, make you the best you can be, understand you, support you, build you up and add something to you life, then its worth sticking around for. If they make you feel unloved, bad about yourself, negative, if its destructive, draining, takes something away ..if you get nothing back, then yes, why bother indeed.
