Hang in there WDID. This type stuff had to happen sooner or later. It's all part of the process of getting through it. It will get better.
I'm so glad you posted this. After my weekend, I've been pretty down but this post made me think that maybe that's what my W is going through. Take a look at my sitch and see if it sounds like it to you.
Keep your chin up. You've changed for the better. It'll just take time to get through it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.