Yep, it is a good book. First time I read it though I actually got so mad I threw it across the room.
Tostada, your W has a long way to go yet.The WAS has to go through the A, realise it isn't working, and then take a good hard look at themselves. If the original M is to work BOTH parties need to recognise what the problems were and alter so that they can act in harmony again. It is a long and painful process.
It took my H a year post reconciliation to one day say out of the blue that he couldn't believe what he did. There has to be real remorse there....and true forgiveness.
It's a long road.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
