Wow! She's making demands of you and she's in Germany. Don't do it. Stand up for yourself, like you said. Don't tell her you're not a snitch. Say something to the effect of I'm busy taking care of the kids or the house or something grownup. This conversation that you had sounds awfully childish to be honest. If she has access to a site where you post--stop posting there unless you intentionally want to piss her off. At least your wife is still talking to you. Mine doesn't even call anymore and we live in the same town!

Last edited by AFWAW; 04/06/09 12:37 PM.

M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!