Yes, do the Pie Chart.. honestly. Will you show it to him? Ask him to do one? Ha... scan it into FB and we can all go OMG !!!
John, I'm not sure I would see it as lack of commitment.. quite the opposite, I think H is very committed to K and the kids, its more his inability to connect emotionally. He is a supreme avoider. The IC touched on this, but he hasnt gotton past it. The penny hasnt dropped with him and I dont know what it would take for it too. Maybe a big loss.. like losing you and the kids if you moved abroad??
