Ok, need some advice. When is it ok to talk about Sex? We have spent a ton of time together. We have held hands, kissed, hugged, I have spent the night, but she is very hesitant when I make any moves in that direction.
I know it will sound childish, but the last man she was with wasn't me, and that bothers me (although I never mention it). It just makes me wonder. Does she find me attractive anymore? Will she ever? Did she have unsafe sex with her OM (probably) and is worried about whether she caught something?
It is just very frustrating to be this close both physically and emotionally but not feel like her husband completely. I said that it was childish, and I know I need to be patient, but I don't really know what to expect at the point. Anybody have any advice?
Thanks,
I can't be the guy I was. Why would I want to. I don't want to go back to the way things were. That's what got me here.
