read your posts and it sounds like you are back to square one. As you know, I undersatnd the predicament you find yourself in. If your H was acting "normally", I would say do whatever it takes to make it work...hang on etc. But honestly with the way you describe his visits (doctor) and the time he "gives" you, it doe snot sound like he is committed to making this work. Sorry to be so negative. I am just trying to call it like I see it,,,it pains me to do so. There are tons of men out there that I am sure would line up for the opportunity that your H has. You are just not on top of his list for some reason. Now the question is what the puck to do to get there and question number two is do you really want to get there.