Friday night I stopped at my brothers house with the kids after school and we had dinner there. I took them home and put them to bed and I just hung out. My W took a 2 hour train ride in the morning to go to an afternoon wake for a friend she went to school with. Then she took a train into Manhattan to go out to dinner and see a concert with 7 of her friends from work and she went straight to the hotel (local hotel about 10 min away) afterwards. She called me around 6pm to let me know she got to the city ok - she said she didn't want me to worry about her. We actually talked for about 20 minutes as she was walking uptown to the restaurant she was meeting her friends at.
Sat I woke up with the kids and we lounged around for a while. I did 6 loads of laundry and cleaned up around the house. My W called me around 11am to say hello. We talked for a while then I put the kids on the phone and we sang happy birthday.
My sister came up with her husband and two girls. They got to my house around 4pm and we went over to my brothers house to eat and have a birthday party for my D. I dropped the kids off and went out to pick up the food and a birthday cake. I also picked up two birthday cards from me and the kids and got her a cordless mini-mouse for her laptop.
The party was alot of fun. The kids had a great time hanging out with their cousins and playing. They didn't want to leave. We ended up leaving around 10:30 and I took them home. They were overtired so they had a hard time falling asleep - I put them in my bed with me till they nodded off.
Sun I got up with the kids and made them breakfast in bed. They sat in my bed watching TV and ate. My W came home around 11:30 and said she had missed her lawyers appt on Sat because she fell asleep at the hotel around 1pm and didn't wake up until 6pm. I took the kids outside and played and my W joined us. Then I made them lunch and they ate outside. We played outside for the rest of the day and I vacuumed out my car and cleaned up the dash board with armor-all. Then I did my W's car. She came outside and saw her car all clean and thanked me.
We played outside till around 6pm and we ate dinner. My W drank a bottle of red wine and a Mikes Hard Lemonade in about 3 hours (4pm-7pm : Masciarelli Italian Dry Red Wine).
After dinner I pulled out the ice cream cake that was left over from Sat's party and we threw some candles on it and sang Happy Birthday to my W. Then she opened up her cards and her present. I told her the mouse was from the kids - then she said, "Thank you. I know this was your idea to pick it up and I wanted to say thanks."
While I was getting the kids ready for bed my W decided to change right in front of me. She was topless, put her shirt on, then changed her pants into pajamas. She hadn't done this in a few weeks.
The kids were in her room with her after that and she called me in to see what they were doing - they were assembling a clothes rack that had been sitting in her closet and it was funny because my S was telling my D what to do as they put it together. My S also helped my W hook the mouse up to her laptop.
My W was on facebook and she told me a girl from HS had sent her a friends request - She said, "She's [censored] up and I don't want to talk with her." I said, "She's messed up." Then my W looked over and our kids were about 4 feet away. (She had complained that I cursed in front of the kids a few months ago and here she was doing it). I showed her how to block the girl with security settings.
We then put the kids to bed and my W went into her room. I watched a movie then went to sleep.
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