I would also like to add that my wife clearly does not see me as a part of her future. She has purchased light fittings, is ordering new bed linen, small items of furniture etc - all items for the house when we have divorced. When I asked her if I should get an opportunity to select things for the house, she said "well, seeing as you won't own it soon, what is the point?". I defy anybody here to tell me this marriage is not over and any DR'ing or whatever will change that. As positive as I try to be, it looks like this relationship outcome is staring me in the face - DIVORCE.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years