HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[MrBond]

TH,

I'm very sorry for the pain you're going through. I can't imagine going through it for 2 years.

First off, read the DR and DB books thoroughly. They are a lifesaver. I think if you would have read them carefully in the beginning, you wouldn't be in this position.

Cut off all contact from your H. He's disrespecting you and that is something you do not deserve. If he likes strong and confident women, then show him that's what you are. You can survive without him.

Show him how strong you are. Take up the moments thinking of him by reading and working on you.

Take care.