Good Morning!! Happy week everyone! It's a cold rainy morning here. I thought winter was done, we had some lovely days last week and now we have rain... Well, we need it, so at least that's good.
I wouldnt say no to any of the "Bonds" you mentioned. And somehow, D. Craig "does it" to me more that the others...
About H : Guys all the things you are thinking of, I have been thinking about the last 6 months. I cant change work schedules because I would have to go on shifts and that would disrupt my kid's lives and probably be more expensive because I would need a babysitter for more hours. Especially now with my dad's health being an issue.
I would NOT leave my job to be able to see him in the mornings (which is not 100% true since he sleeps in the mornings).
We can not meet for lunches during weekdays. I am working. I havent been doing well at work. I cant be taking one day a week leave to meet H for lunch.
Julia, if we would spend more quality time together we would probably have a chance to create a connection. But I have NO CONTROL over his schedule. 2 weeks ago I took a day off to be with him in the morning because we had arranged that he would stay over, and it was THAT morning he chose to leave early for work... You see what I mean? Having a goal "spend quality time together" is fine. How to achieve that is the issue. If he doesnt CHOOSE to make time for me, I cant force him. And you know what? Why should I force him to? We are RECONCILING. We are not in a DBing 7 step plan. We should try for this together. K
