Da' Bomb has Landed; PLEASE Help

[Goingdownhill]

Trixi says "And it also sounds like there might be someone else on the horizon. (sorry.)"

I believe it is his high school sweetheart who just filed for divorce on 3/19. I believe they may have had an affair at the 25yr reuntion in 9/07. He came home didn't want to have six after being gone (very unusual). A week later had a bruise on his shaft. So I got suspicious, very suspicious. Now last night I found a CD of pictures of them together at the reunion. So I started searching more. He is internet dependent. Mostly gun sites and facebook. She is on his facebook account. I confronted him on it (blew up actually about it which I lost my cool (very bad in DR). Now she isn't there any longer.

Also, found a Victoria Secret receipt around V-Day for 6 pairs of underwear and I only received 3. Confronted him on that not so cooly.

Last night I found where she filed for divorce in TX. We are in CA. 2 weeks later, I get the letter I posted. My EAP counselor says that I have a right to know the reality of this. So I'm trying to get him to her this week.