Is this normal? Need some advice

[PortlandDad]

Meli,
Here's a link to a very good paper on loving detachment. I think it explains the principle very well.

lLoving Detachment

The bottom line is LD shouldn't feel like 'not caring', but closer to 'OK with thoughts of divorce'. That is what you want to project to your Sp. Once they see that you are OK with moving on, it becomes them that has second thoughts.

As it was explained so eloquently in Thinkers thread,

"If you chase a dog, he runs away. If you stop and walk the other way, he follows." It works with people, too.

Hope you had a nice weekend!