One other thing that I did was her removed as an authorized user on my two credit cards. I didn't talk to her about doing this, because I am trying to have as little contact as possible. I hope that this doesn't make her angry or push her further away, but I was concerned that I needed to protect myself.
Very smart move. She will probably scream like a banshee when she finds out, but it was the right thing to do. You do need to focus on you right now and detach from her.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09